Is it wrong that i am sleeping with my girlfriend but no at 17?

You're a good guy, Ric. Your friends are insensitive creeps—forget about them and just keep being there for your girlfriend. She must be in so much pain right now, I can't even begin to imagine how much. Just be careful that her dad doesn't catch you in bed with her. You want him to continue to think that you're a good guy, too.